Anonymous asked: There's this guy I'm really interested in and he's three, four years older than me but I turn eighteen at the end of this month. He seem so interested in me too we also had these three amazing conversations that were just perfect, also when I'd walk into the store he'd smile at me, or walked by he'd go "psst" and smile and wave. But the last time I was in there my "friends" totally embarrassed me and now I'm so nervous going back in there. Him and I had this really great thing going on, but now
No, not but now, if you like someone, don’t let your friends ruin it.
About the age difference, love is fucking love.
Anonymous asked: A close friend of mine is currently in a relationship (after she ended her previous one I told her she gets bored of guys easily) and she contacted me yesterday saying she was bored of it and she was unhappy and tried to end the relationship but he got suicidal and she was scared and worried for him so she couldn't end it it's his first relationship he's 23 she's 21. He ran away when he was suicidal and his mother called the cops on her I don't want to tell her advice and he does something crazy
I think she needs to find someone that makes her happy, maybe she should work out a plan with his mom or something like that.
Anonymous asked: I'm young, I lost my virginity in September 2011. I've had sex with 4 different guys. I feel like I need to punish my self for being such a sleaze. but then i don't think i should beat my self up for it, because i cant fix it, i cant undo it, but i can never get it off my mind. i feel like a bad person:/
You’re not a bad person, okay? Just try to change your ways, don’t continue to do what you have, because it’ll just make you feel worse, I think you should Message Elissa (fuckmestupid) because she’s gone through a lot of this kind of thing.
Anonymous asked: ok, so my girlfriend moved to a different country and she started feeling down and i kept trying to keep her happy and cheer her up, then her dad commited suicide. and she did too, now all i do is sleep and nothing makes anything better. i just want to switch places with her.
Oh my. First, I’d like to say that I’m so sorry. Second I’d like to tell you that you’re allowed to be sad, you’re allowed to be upset, take time to heal, take all the time you need. If you need to cry, cry, if you need to punch something, do it. Don’t let yourself feel worse though, know that there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel, and you just have to stick it out until you get there. Stay strong <3
Anonymous asked: So my friend that is a girl is interested in me and I think she's cute and stuff, but I only like her as a friend. Which she understands, but I feel bad that I'm not returning the feelings. (I'm also a girl)
You don’t have to feel bad.. If you don’t like someone like that, then you don’t like them.
Anonymous asked: so, i've liked this girl for about a year now and she's had a boyfriend, but they just broke up like, 5 weeks ago. We're both girls and shes never said that she was straight or anything, and she acts like shes into me..but i'm not sure what to do.. like, i'm not sure if i should try anything..
Okay, here’s what I think. I know five weeks seems like a long time to you, but some people take longer than others to get over someone, I don’t think you should try anything because it could affect your friendship in a negative way..
Anonymous asked: I think my long distance boyfriend might be cheating. Im not sure what i should do about it /
Maybe you should talk to him, if you truly believe that. But don’t make it sound like you don’t trust him, because that could go down the opposite road. Just listen to your heart, don’t settle until you’re happy.
Anonymous asked: I guess I shoud just go find another advice blog, why even have this if your never gonna answer.
I don’t have any questions on my advice blog right now.
They go to the same inbox and are answered as soon as they come in.
Anonymous asked: ok so i like this guy and hes like perfect you know were friends and all but i really wanna go out with him but im really shy what should i do?
Face your fears, you never know how it will work until you try c:
Anonymous asked: Okay, I really like this guy. And I want to be with him. But he sort of has a past of being a douche. None of my friends want me to be with him, they say it's because they don't want me to get hurt. My best friend even threatened to stop talking to me if we date. I already tried to stop talking to him, but it's not working to well. I wanna be with him. I don't know if I should listen to my friends or not. What do I do? /:
If you like someone, your friends should be there for you, and if they can’t be supportive, then they aren’t your true friends, don’t let them make your decision for you. If you like him, be with him.
